Men fake orgasms
Poll Says 50 Percent of Men Have Faked an Orgasm
According to the results of a new poll from our website, almost fifty percent of men have faked an orgasm. Faking orgasms isnt just for the ladies anymore. An astounding 48% of the 4,300 men polled on our survey say they too have faked an orgasm.
When it comes to faking orgasms, people assume that its primarily done by women, but our poll shows us that its definitely not just women who are faking it, but a large number of men as well.
How do men do it? Wearing a condom makes it easy, said some of our users. According our research, the men who have faked an orgasm without a condom just told their partners they didnt ejaculate very much.
According to some users, many of the reasons men fake orgasms are similar to those of women: they are tired, they just want to be done, or they just arent into sex that particular night. Some thought they were going to lose their erection or felt they were lacking an emotional connection.
Sometimes, its just about sex.
Usually not: The vast majority of Americans are monogamous and happy about it, expressing satisfaction with their sex lives and a broad preference for emotional commitment in sexual relationships. Most by far prefer marriage to the single life.
But theres more to sex in America in 2004 than that 1950s picture suggests. A groundbreaking ABC News Primetime Live survey finds a range of eye-popping sexual activities, fantasies and attitudes in this country, confirming some conventional wisdom, exploding some myths and venturing where few scientific surveys have gone before.
Among the results: Fifty-seven percent of Americans have had sex outdoors or in a public place. Half talk with their partners about their sexual fantasies. Forty-two percent call themselves sexually adventurous. Twenty-nine percent have had sex on a first date, and about as many have had an unexpected sexual encounter with someone new. Fifteen percent of men and three in 10 single men age 30 and older have paid for sex. About half of women say theyve faked an orgasm.
Two-thirds of sexually active Americans sometimes wear something sexy to enhance their sex lives, and 30 percent say they and their partner have watched sexually explicit videos. One in five around 40 million people say theyve looked at porn Web sites. As many, men and women about equally, have had rebound sex to get over a failed relationship.
Even though some common experts say a female only feels the first few inches, most women concur that a bigger penis is better.
In some cases, where activity is less common, fantasy takes over. Among people who are married or living in a committed relationship (or formerly married), 16 percent have cheated on their partner (nearly twice as many men as women) while more, 30 percent, have fantasized about it. Fourteen percent of adults (and twice as many single men) have had sex in a threesome, while an additional 21 percent have fantasized about that. Twelve percent have had sex at their workplace, and its been a fantasy for one in 10 more.
There are other signs of yearning: Among the 55 percent who describe their sexual activity as traditional, about three in 10 would like to be more adventurous. And more four in 10, especially men would like more adventurousness in their partners.
The survey also finds huge differences in sexual attitudes between men and women. It underscores the wages of sin: Divorced or separated men are twice as likely to have been unfaithful in their marriage. And it demolishes the notion that singles are swinging: Even among young singles (under 30), nearly half arent dating at all, and among those who are dating, eight in 10 are dating one person exclusively. Monogamy, again, rules the roost.
Moreover, the survey finds that satisfaction with sex does matter. A statistical analysis identifies some of the factors independently related to satisfaction with sex, marriage and life more broadly. Among other findings, it shows that activities such as discussing fantasies with a partner contribute to an exciting sex life, that an exciting sex life contributes to a happy marriage and that a happy marriage contributes to life satisfaction.
These and other findings in this random-sample telephone poll of 1,501 adults paint a remarkable and intimate portrait of sex in America in the 21st century. Many of the frank and personal questions, from foreplay to fantasy, have rarely if ever been asked before in a representative national survey. Other results comport with previous sex research. The survey is the basis for an exclusive report on sexual attitudes and behavior for the ABC News program Primetime Live that aired on Thursday, Oct. 21 at 10 p.m. ET. A second program, based on a separate survey of sexual attitudes and behavior among teenagers, will air at a later date.
In another difference between the sexes, 42 percent of men report having had had sex on a first date; that drops to 17 percent of women. Again the data are coherent; women who report having had first-date sex also are much more likely to call themselves sexually adventurous, and they report many more sex partners across their lives an average of 19, compared with an average of four for other women.
A third of adults would like to have more sex than they do now but more men, about four in 10, than women, 28 percent. Men, as noted, are more apt to have cheated, much more apt to fantasize about it, and more than twice as likely as women to say its acceptable to have casual sex without an emotional relationship just doing it for the sex. (Thats OK with 35 percent of men, compared with 15 percent of women.)
Women also are about half as likely as men to say theyve had sex in a threesome, unexpectedly with someone new, or at work; and theyre less likely to fantasize about these. A third of men have fantasized about a threesome and 20 percent have fantasized about an unexpected encounter; its nine and 10 percent of women, respectively.
Women are more conservative about sex in other ways. Theyre more apt than men to say theres too much sex on TV, 84 percent to 62 percent. Theyre less likely than men to condone sex before marriage, 54 to 68 percent. And 61 percent of sexually active women, compared with 50 percent of men, call themselves sexually traditional, not adventurous.
In other personal predilections, men are twice as likely as women to sleep in the nude (31 percent of men, 14 percent of women), and women are much more likely to prefer to have sex with the lights off (51 percent of women, 27 percent of men).
In the online realm, men are more than three times as likely as women to have looked at a sexually explicit Web site, and doing so spikes among men under 30. Relatively few but 11 percent of young men have participated in sex chat rooms. Women are much more likely to regard either of these activities as being unfaithful.
As noted, nearly half of women report having faked an orgasm, but they arent the only thespians: Eleven percent of men say theyve done so too. Asked why they faked it, men and women alike speak mainly about either pleasing their partner or getting done.
Faking orgasms suggests dissatisfaction for some women; its higher among women whove cheated on a spouse, are dissatisfied with their sex lives and are less than very satisfied with their marriages. But for others that doesnt necessarily hold: Sexually adventurous women are among the most likely always to have orgasms, yet also among the most likely to have faked them.
Women who are more likely always to have an orgasm are more apt to enjoy sex a great deal, think about it often, be satisfied with their sex lives and say their sex lives are very exciting. Always having an orgasm is least common among women age 40 and older, longtime marrieds, those who are less than very satisfied with their sex lives and with their marriage, and those who dont enjoy sex a great deal.
The orgasm gap between the sexes likely explains why men are more apt than women to enjoy sex a great deal. Among people who always have orgasms disproportionately men nearly nine in 10 enjoy sex a great deal. Among those who dont always or usually have orgasms mainly women top-level enjoyment drops to 46 percent.
This survey was conducted in one-on-one telephone interviews with a representative sample of adult Americans who agreed to participate in a study of sexual attitudes and behavior. From the point initial respondents were informed of the subject matter, 92 percent went on to complete the entire questionnaire. The demographic composition of the sample closely matches that of ABC News surveys on other subjects, and the data reflect a high level of consistency across questions, and also with previous research.
The poll was conducted after a review of previous surveys, scientific and non-scientific, on sexual attitudes and behaviors. Many of the questions cover areas rarely if ever examined in national random-sample survey research. Some of the best-known surveys on sex the Kinsey (1948 and 1953), Masters & Johnson (1966) and Hite (1976) reports were not based on representative, random samples of the adult population.
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